How To Get a Girl Friend

How To Get a Girl Friend

For all those who haven't been able to find a girlfriend, follow these steps to become attractive to women.

Tips

1. You don't have to be Brad Pitt to get a girl. For the most part, just caring about how you are is enough. Wear clothes that fit, and make sure your body is clean. (Keep clean teeth, tidy hair etc.)
2. If you want to know how to get a girlfriend, one thing you can never forget is confidence. Girls love a confident man - it dates way back to the age of the caveman, when a woman desired the alpha male of the group (the definition of confidence). Show a girl that you are a confidence leader, and a girl will show you more attention.
3. Keep up a good posture, walk steadily and smile. Women do not like slouchers. Bad posture gives the impression of low confidence. Smiling makes a guy more friendly and welcoming. A good walking style, (straight back and taking well-distanced strides) gives the impression of intelligence. One thing that you shouldn't be afraid of is; what other people think. If you like this girl go out and get her despite what other people think. It's your life.. not theirs ...
4. Wearing a large amount of cologne is not a good idea, wearing two or more different types of cologne is an even worse idea, and always remember that with your smell, a little goes a long way.
5. Pick a location frequented by a significant number of girls where you feel fairly comfortable, perhaps a place that is conducive to a skill of yours: music, public speaking, or a private intimate conversation. Go out and have a good time. Guys who stare and walk around constantly looking for women immediately lower their value. Go out with your friends to a bar or club (or any public place, such as a bookstore, if you're more of the studious type) and start out by genuinely having a good time. The Internet does not count.
6. Be funny. If you're not naturally funny, don't try too hard around her. Situational humor in the form of dry observation is more interesting than an actual joke with a set-up and a punch-line.
7. "Plant some seeds". Flirt casually with waitresses. Make a passing comment and smile to a girl walking by. Toast a woman at the bar (try not to be too creepy though). Then go back to having a good time with your friends. In a short time, you'll notice women slowly gravitating to you.
8. Talk. Silence is uncomfortable. (On the other hand, women or men who do nothing but talk and never listen can be annoying.)
9. Learn how to flirt. Flirting is an art, and is easily the most important social skill for men to learn. Try taking a comedy class, or talk to her like she's your little sister...but do so with a smile, so she will know you are kidding.
10. Connect with her. Find out what you have in common, and reward her with a smile and a story of your own if she tells you something unique about herself to which you can relate. WARNING: If she gives you something like "Oh, I like to go shopping", don't reward her for that. It's not unique. Instead, ask for more information and then connect with it.
11. Look and touch. Looking into a girl's eyes shows respect and interest. A firm handshake, a gentle pat on the back, a light touch of the hand and other subtle gestures allow the girl to feel connected with the guy.
12. Feel great. The feeling will radiate and affect the lady too.
13. Don't pretend to be someone you aren't. You may think you will win her over with like-mindedness, but in the end she will find you out. Find a common interest, something you both like instead.
14. Show your interest. The best way to get out of the "friend trap" is to avoid it from the start. After finding common interests, make your intentions clear. "You know, I just realized it. Not only are you pretty, but you're fun to talk to."
15. Ask for her number. Give her your phone, tell her "Put your number in my phone and I'll call your phone so you'll have mine."
16. And once you establish that special, exclusive relationship of boyfriend and girlfriend do not--I repeat--do not stop the chivalry. Women are too special to only be waited on conditionally. The best way to show her you care is to continue to do the little things for her. You still need to open her car door, walk her home, kiss her goodnight. ALWAYS call her at night to bid her goodnight (it's best to wait a few hours after your date to do this, otherwise you'll seem a tad desperate.) Remember, show affection and respect and you'll get affection and respect.
17. Look in the right places for girls. Make sure that when you're looking for a girlfriend, you actually look in the right places. Looking for women at a bar or a club is not the right thing to do. Make sure to stay within your league, and go for girls that already seem to have some of the same interests that you do.

Tips

• Always try to laugh with her,and to make her happy. If she makes fun of you it is a good sign she is interested in you.
• Girls get jealous very easily. Making up a girlfriend you met on a trip will increase your mystique and sex appeal.
• Avoid acting conceited, snobby, or self absorbed. Girls do not respect boys like this AT ALL. If you're just trying to beat your "kiss" record, and you're not actually interested in the girl, don't bother.
• Body language is very important. Be sure to keep a sturdy, upright frame and look her in the eye. Now, be careful not to stare at her either. Being natural is key.
• If you are nervous, and going out to meet women, be sure to start talking to people as soon as you reach your destination. Chat up the staff at the door, or the people who let you into the party. Be open from the start.
• Put on great-smelling perfume (temporary liver worst scent) girls love that!!! Research the best-selling ones at department stores. Unless, that is, the girls you like tend to be more on the outdoors or tomboy side of things. Some girls detest the scent of cologne. Do not marinate yourself with scents. Ladies complain of too much cologne, not too little. Do not exceed the maximum of three sprays on the upper body. Especially if you wear cologne every day. It's the general problem where a person gradually becomes accustomed to the cologne levels in their own scent so that they need more and more of the stuff to be able to smell it on themselves. You might not be able to smell it, but it's there.
• Guys do not need to look like Brad Pitt to find a girlfriend. Just keep hair, teeth, and nails clean and neat. Ladies are quick to notice little details especially in the hands and faces. Don't think you're ugly, if you look at the boyfriends of other attractive girls, you'll find that most of them aren't like Brad Pitt either.
• Be a good conversationalist. Read up on the latest in politics, entertainment, and and even sports news. Women love a well-informed man. It makes him look well-educated and, therefore, richer in every aspect. Or just actually be well-educated.
• Do listen to the lady before responding. Women do not like to be cut off. They like to be considered and feel important.
• If she does get cut off, when the other conversation is over, go back and ask her what she was saying. It is a very nice thing to do, and makes you look like a leader.
• Do pay on the first drink, first date, first taxi cab ride, etc. It makes a gentleman out of a man.
• Very important - offer to walk or drive the lady home (or anywhere she wants to go). This makes the man seem sincerely concerned for her well-being.
• Don't say things you need to explain, this is the biggest mood killer.
• Be honest and forthright, but not aggressive. Girls appreciate you telling them how you feel.
• Don't annoy your girl by texting her every night. If she texts you, reply, but unless you have something to say then don't text. It gets annoying when someone keeps texting you saying "what r u doing?", so if you absolutely can't go without saying something every day, at least correct your grammar. At the very minimum, spell words correctly. Instead text about something that happened to you that reminded you of her, it could lead to a good conversations starter the next time you meet her.
• Don't be afraid to display your affection in public, but be aware that not all girls like that.
• Dress to match: blacks and whites, browns and blues, etc. Even if they don't say anything, girls notice.
• Don't be afraid to touch her, if you find yourself flirting, lightly touch her arm or waist.
• Be a gentleman! Open car doors for her and remember the "ladies first" rule.
• Be yourself.
• If you're going to the movies, get one large popcorn to share it, and maybe your hands will touch.
• Grinning like the Cheshire cat can often creep someone out.
• Taking over the entire conversation is overbearing and rude.
• Do not insist relentlessly on an offer when the lady has turned it down. It may be that she has no use for or does not feel good about the suggestion. Pushing her to accept will only increase the possibility of rejection. *tell her that you want to have a sexual conversation
• Be a close talker. every girl likes that.*Don't make disgusting body jokes or ask them questions that are too personal.
• Make her feel like a human being instead of a sex object.
• Do not tell your friends about secrets or personal information she has told you. If she wanted your friends to know, then she would share it with them. Until then, you should assume the information is for your knowledge only.
• Don't over-compliment the girl. Complimenting is good, but if you do it too much, she will probably just think you're desperate or weird.
• Don't be too concerned for what mood the girl is in. A short, "are you feeling okay?" is fine, but DO NOT comment on how the girl appears to be. Girls don't like guys that say "you seem upset" all the time.
• Flirt not only with her, but a little with other girls as well. In fact, when you are first meeting the girl you should befriend her friends before her. But make sure she knows its her you want. Women are like sheep following a leader, if one girl is attracted to you. Another girl will notice and she will get attracted to you because the first girl is. Smiling, joking around, making the people around you happy. If you can manage that, you can get pretty much any girl.
• Immerse yourself in a group of girls. Trios of girls are the easiest target. Try to be in their lab and study groups as much as possible.
• Remember, girls will let you know within a short time if they are interested. If you seem not to find someone interested in you, or have a bunch of rejections, don't get down. Sometimes being single is a plus.
• Also keep in mind that if she talks to you first or carries on the conversation, then that means that there is something about you that she likes.
• Teasing about small things is almost always good, but don't take it too far.

Warnings

• 1. If you believe that your reputation in the area that you live in isn't "up-to-par"...chances are it's not good. So don't go flirt and act like your ignorant (Don't get me wrong...ignorance and stupidity really seems to attract girls real well) to a girl that knows your reputation just from her sources. The only time this is ever successful is only in the movies.
• 2. If a hot girl with a much better reputation(out of your league) decides to "allow you"(which is exactly she is doing) to become her boyfriend under these circumstances, then, she probably isn't interested in you in the way you would want her to be. She is probably using you as a way of getting back at her ex or doing it for fun or testing you for informative purposes - etc...
• 3. A lot of people marry out of their league, for lust only, or with a hidden agenda(not shared). This leads to a horrible marriage life including frequent arguments, unhappiness, unfaithfulness, abuse of your own children, etc. Before popping the question, make sure you know what exactly your getting into(If you know what I mean).