Saturday, March 28, 2009

How to Flirt Through Text Messages

How to Flirt Through Text Messages

Flirting has finally come to the 21st century, as you can give some the hint, by using a text message.

Steps
  1. Be up to date with the language. Try learning 'Net Speak', such as "OMG!" "LOL" or "C U," or "C U L8R" to make you send your messages faster. (Oh my God/Gosh, Laughing out Loud, See you and See you Later)
  2. Use symbols when talking such as :) - XD - =) - ;) (Be creative).
  3. Try to make inside jokes between you and the person you're attempting to flirt with.
  4. Connect in anyway possible, example, talk about common interests.
  5. Compliment the other and show off, for instance, if they say "Hey whats up" reply, "hey cutie, im getting ready to go to the gym" (or whatever seems right).
  6. Try to keep the conversation going.
  7. If the conversation reaches a dull point, and you can't think of a way to get out of it. Just say "alright i g2g ttyl <3>
  8. Say their name sometimes, just not too much or it may getting annoying. EX. "Joe! That's a great idea!"

Tips
  • Don't try to get someone to like you just over text messages.
  • Be constant; don't flirt just over the phone and not in person, because he'll think you're joking.
  • If they have to leave for a minute, don't keep texting them until they get back; it's annoying and seems clingy.
  • As with all flirting, don't come on too strong.
  • Call him babe or babey some times,
  • also dont be too pushy and dont say i like you over a text that freaks them out
  • Text them things they will remember you by, so that you come up in their mind over the next day
Warnings
  • Be careful who you let read your text messages.
  • Don't just ramble on. Being boring is anti-flirting.
  • Don't always be the one to text first. Let him text you first once in a while, because he could get annoyed.
  • Check your spelling and grammar. You don't want him/her to misunderstand what you wrote and take it the wrong way, or not even understand what you meant at all.