Attracting women comes easy for some guys, but for the rest of us it takes a lot of work. If you know how to approach, talk, and act right in front of a woman, your chances of success increase substantially. Don't get me wrong, looks are a part of attraction, but women are emotional beings and if you portray the right image, looks shouldn't have much, if anything to do with it.
There are two parts to the brain: conscious (rational), subconscious (irrational/emotional). Women are hard wired to use the subconscious part of there brain when dealing with attraction. To put it simply, if you know how to act and what to say, you can trigger this attraction button in woman and use it to your advantage. Since looks only make up 20% of attraction, if you know how to manipulate the other 80%... LOOKS WON'T MATTER AT ALL!
I would like to go over a few things that are important when trying to approach a women your interested in. First thing to make sure of is don't come on too strong, and don't appear too interested. This will make you appear as desperate or needy, and is an immediate turn-off for women. Playing it cool is the easiest way to draw attraction.
Use eye contact and be confident in who you are. It's not about how much money you make, or your physical appearance. If you believe in yourself, so will the people you meet.
Make sure not to confuse confidence with cockiness. There is a definite line between confidence and arrogance. it's OK to talk about yourself, just make sure that's not everything that comes out of your mouth. Nobody likes someone full of themselves. Focus more on being a good listener...Woman love that!
Humor is a great way to break the ice. If you can make a girl laugh, it breaks the tension, and she will feel more comfortable around you.
These are just a few tips on how to approach the opposite sex. Check out the link below if you are really interested in mastering the art of picking up women...Happy Hunting.
Women are emotional creatures, therefore they can be attracted and seduced by using some pretty deep psychological stuff.
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